I ran this poll back in March about the quality of sex one has before and after getting married. It was referring to the quality mind you, not the quantity. One guy wrote in saying that he had more sex after he got hitched, indicating that he did not have to 'look' for it anymore because it was 'there' when he wanted it. However, when I asked if the sex was better now, he replied with a resounding 'No'.
Not surprising. For me, I am lucky because my SO is equally adventurous and is always willing to try out new things with me. That just makes it a whole lot more enticing. Seeing that marriage is a long-term commitment (at least that was what I was taught), the effect of sexual adventurism should never be under-estimated.
Anyway, here is how the 76 respondents voted to the poll 'Was your sex life better before marriage?'
Definitely: 48 (63%)
No Way!: 18 (24%)
What sex life?: 10 (13%)
Yet another reason why I keep telling you guys to spend more time spicing up your marriage. It's not something that is going to happen. And while it takes two hands to clap, raising your hand to get things off the mark is a positive start.
Missus Singapore out!