(Continued from yesterday)
I did a survey-article for a men's magazine recently and of the 118 men from 23-30 years of age surveyed, 81% actually wanted to get nasty with a married woman. No, it was not merely a novelty idea. Not fantasy. They actually had someone in mind! Darn. I should have mentioned I was married! Of course I had to be unbiased and never mentioned anything. There was also a photo test where five single and five married women all in bikinis were shown. The single woman were visibly trimmer and fitter but it did not seem to matter much. 57% actually pointed out the married woman for their fuller and fleshier bodies. They were of course shocked to learn that these women were mothers too!!! At this point, I was about to whip out my wedding ring as proof I was hitched and willing....hehe!
Ask the men who have had sex with married woman (not husbands). and they will tell you the older woman has a significantly bigger bag of tricks up her knickers! And she knows know to tease and flirt right, knows what she wants and is not afraid to take it! Desperate? Perhaps. Sexually adventurous? Possibly. Horny? Oh most definitely.
The bugbear however is that most married woman I have met are as guilty of letting themselves go as opposed to feeling weighed down by societal stereotyping. :-( In this aspect across the board, the single woman wins hands down. They take generally better care of themselves and in true courting fashion, have to. The challenge though is to maintain that mindset after marriage and after babies come around. Open-minded and confident husband who allows you to be yourself - another entity increasingly hard to find.
So the debate continues but .... I suppose the only way to put my opinions to test would be a one-to-one test... I must see if I can mobilise one or two of my single girlfriends as fellow contestants with one or two of my single male friends as judges... And let the games begin! What I would subject myself to and sacrifice, all for the sake of finding the truth!
Missus Singapore out!