MARRIED VS SINGLE DEBATE (Part 2)

(Continued from yesterday)

I did a survey-article for a men's magazine recently and of the 118 men from 23-30 years of age surveyed, 81% actually wanted to get nasty with a married woman. No, it was not merely a novelty idea. Not fantasy. They actually had someone in mind! Darn. I should have mentioned I was married! Of course I had to be unbiased and never mentioned anything. There was also a photo test where five single and five married women all in bikinis were shown. The single woman were visibly trimmer and fitter but it did not seem to matter much. 57% actually pointed out the married woman for their fuller and fleshier bodies. They were of course shocked to learn that these women were mothers too!!! At this point, I was about to whip out my wedding ring as proof I was hitched and willing....hehe!

Ask the men who have had sex with married woman (not husbands). and they will tell you the older woman has a significantly bigger bag of tricks up her knickers! And she knows know to tease and flirt right, knows what she wants and is not afraid to take it! Desperate? Perhaps. Sexually adventurous? Possibly. Horny? Oh most definitely.

The bugbear however is that most married woman I have met are as guilty of letting themselves go as opposed to feeling weighed down by societal stereotyping. :-( In this aspect across the board, the single woman wins hands down. They take generally better care of themselves and in true courting fashion, have to. The challenge though is to maintain that mindset after marriage and after babies come around. Open-minded and confident husband who allows you to be yourself - another entity increasingly hard to find.

So the debate continues but .... I suppose the only way to put my opinions to test would be a one-to-one test... I must see if I can mobilise one or two of my single girlfriends as fellow contestants with one or two of my single male friends as judges... And let the games begin! What I would subject myself to and sacrifice, all for the sake of finding the truth!

Missus Singapore out!

MARRIED VS SINGLE DEBATE (Part 1)

Here we go again - the perpetual 'rivalry' (if you like) will never end. On the one corner sits the single and available woman and on the other, lays spread and withered, the washed-out over-the-hill and undesirable married woman with kids.

Where do I start? I suppose my honest opinion is that they both hold some truth and the dynamics of the married woman's mindset and family circumstances play a part. Self-confidence, self-worth, happy family, open-minded spouse, healthy outlook on sex, etc, can all add up. It is more fragile I suppose with us married types because taking away any one of the above can trigger internal quakes which invariably have a knock-on effect on the rest.

For a single woman, her issues are not so much inter-dependent on one another. She can have a problem at home and still hold a healthy relationship or vice versa. She can go about her day quite seamlessly.

To tackle everything is bordering on the impossible so in the true spirit of Missus Singapore, lets focus on the sex.

However, some assumptions first.

Single woman (below 30) vs Married woman (with all the above issues intact)

A single woman exudes a certain charm which is unique from that which a married woman does. For the latter, it seems more intense and it shows in her confidence and how she carries herself. Rightly so. Managing a home, career, family, kids and horny husband is cause for celebration and her confidence is justified. Compared to a single woman..... can't think much about experience in these areas. After all, a married woman has done most things a single woman does or will do.

Sex: The single woman will never hold a torch to the breed of married woman classified herein, in terms of sexual know-how...skills...and circus tricks in bed.... yet they seem to talk a lot more about it. Every young blogger tart in Singapore hopes to promote themselves as know-it-alls....the Sarong Party Girl syndrome... poor misinformed asses...

Married woman are also likely to know a lot more about their bodies, are aware and have embraced their sexuality and the sexual dynamism required to really rock the marital bed... (again I must stress my fine classification of the married woman)

(To be continued)

Missus Singapore out!

UPLIFTING THE SOUL

Thanks to negative experiences in my youth, I never really felt comfortable with my naked body. Standing in front of the mirror nude was not something I reveled in. Though my thin frame was perfect for modeling during the 80s, my ex-boyfriends(s) used to cover up their own inadequacies, low self-esteem and SHORT-comings by insisting I had a horrible body. I knew other guys used to ogle at me but for some reason, a constant barrage of negative comments got to me.

Thankfully, when I met my husband, he was totally the opposite. It was so refreshing and he loved my body. Gradually, I grew comfortable with it and being in the nude was such a release.

We took it slowly. First it was getting myself a new wardrobe (more slutty one at that), then topless sun-bathing in Bali and Phuket and by the turn of the century, it was over to several nudist colonies in Europe. It was liberating I must say. I wouldn't recommend it for everyone but it's really worth a try if you are into it. It's nothing dirty or something you should feel ashamed of. If you can't appreciate your own body, don't expect anyone else to. If you don't like what you see, then do something about it.

It's hot and humid, so i guess its time to get naked.

Missus Singapore out!

MEGA SATISFACTION

The message here for men is to know and satisfy your woman or else...

Missus Singapore out!