(Continued from yesterday)
The road to teasing a woman’s fancy has to be getting her comfortable in conversation, establishing lots of eye contact and not trying to talk too much about yourself. It works for me. Avoid lewd jokes out for now.
Keep a watch out for her body language, facial expressions and how her eyes gaze at you. A gaze straight into your eyes for more than five seconds should be returned with a smile. No words needed here - just feel the electricity.
If there’s none, or she continues to stare at you, you might have a piece of celery stuck to your teeth.
Does she lean forward, play with her hair or wet her lips?
27-year old flight attendant Melody Pereira admits, “My friends inform me that when I am interested in a guy I am with, I usually start fidgeting with things unconsciously when I talk to him. Now I notice it, and it’s usually with the guys who turn me on.”
So the ultimate question is if women think about having sex with the man they are on a date with for the first time. Well, again it depends on several things. The ambience for one - I mean if you’re out on a bowling date, blasting music and all, it’s pretty hard to feel raunchy although, it’s a great opportunity to be playfully flirtatious.
No matter where you are, skill of conversation is important. If you show a genuine interest in her, there is a strong possibility that she will begin wanting to know more about you. When a two-way communication is underway with an absence of uneasy breaks of silence - you’re getting there.
For some women, me included, just the right amount of alcohol will ease us somewhat. It does not necessarily mean we’re primed for sex, but for sure, the conversation will become more interesting. A second date or a date in bed - who knows?
Missus Singapore out!