(Continued from yesterday)
Self-declared ‘good girl’ Rahsiah G who recently became attached, discloses, “We may be fashionably comfortable and perhaps boring at times because we would rather stay home or watch a movie than go to the pubs. I suppose we are like vanilla ice-cream – bland in colour.
The 28-year old biotechnician cheekily adds, “However, vanilla ice-cream is still sweet to the buds. You can always put coloured sprinkles, whipped cream, cherries and chocolate sauce all over us and we become enticing too.”
Sales manager Ong Lay Hoon, 26, feels guys got it all wrong. She elaborates.
“They are mistaken to think we are boring in bed just because we don’t show off our legs or boobs. Outward appearances are deceiving. We may be inexperienced in bed but imagine the fun if they know how to bring us out of our shells. You can actually train us to be your sexual animals if you know how to.”
The message here is clear. There is a sexual animal in all of us. The key is to encourage a woman’s natural sexuality. Try to make her comfortable with sex in a subtle way and tell her how sexy she is or how her quiet demeanour turns you on.
The secret is she wants to be told how even in her simple ways, she can fulfil a man’s fantasies. Better still, with her limited sexual experience, she is unlikely to have many men to compare you to. Bottom line – you won’t be expected to perform miracles in bed.
At the end of the day, the kind of girl you want is really dependent to some extent on your personality too. If you are the jealous sort, I suppose bad girls are not for you.
On the other hand, if you want your space and occasional time-outs, the good girls will not be suitable because their tendency is to shower you with attention.
Ideally, the perfect girlfriend or wife would probably fall somewhere in between – the pleasantness and loyalty of the good and the sexual abandonment of the bad.
My advice is to start off with a good girl because it’s more likely you can turn her into a bad one. It’s very unlikely a bad girl is going to become good just for you.
Missus Singapore out!